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Simon Nqweniso

About four years ago, I was working in town and going to a gym in Sea Point. The only saving grace of the exercise regime at this highly unfriendly place of torture was the car guard I happened to meet in the area called “Judah” (his real name was Simon). Every gymming day we would end up talking for ages outside my car. Judah loved boxing and would often demonstrate the moves. He made me laugh a lot. He had a captain’s hat that he loved wearing on his more eccentric days. 

Last year, in September, Judah died of cancer. His conversations just before getting really sick would often revolve around what legacy he would leave. He had nothing (what he did have often got stolen) but he laboured over the garden around the tennis court and he hoped people would remember him by it. The irony is I think he was the bravest, most generous spirited person I have ever had the pleasure to meet. I think everyone who met him recognised that! He should have been on podiums speaking to multitudes – he had that kind of charisma. I don’t fully understand how lives like his can be so “unknown”. I guess I knew him and that counts somehow in some way…but it troubles me that there are so many like Judah who just aren’t seen. 

Hinds Feet on High Places “I have often wondered about the wild flowers,” Much Afraid said. “It does seem strange that such unnumbered multitudes should bloom in the wild places of the earth where perhaps nobody ever sees them …” The look the Shepherd turned on her was very beautiful. “Nothing my Father and I have made is ever wasted,” he said quietly, “…I must tell you a great truth, Much Afraid, which only a few understand. All the fairest beauties in the human soul, its greatest victories, and its most splendid achievements are always these which no one else knows anything about, or can only dimly guess at.”– Hannah Hubbard, (pg34)

February 13, 2008 - Posted by squarepig | Hannah Hubbard, Simon Nqweniso, car guard, fairest beauties, unseen | , , , | 5 Comments

5 Comments »

  1. Ouch… You’ll have me meditating on this post for a while.

    Comment by timvictor | February 14, 2008 | Reply

  2. I am very drawn to stories of the hidden. I want to add my voice in greeting Simon, and telling him I look forward to meeting him.

    We should live each day with that very question foremost: what will we leave behind?

    I had a related encounter, a one off, with someone, alas, I never got to know him:http://soundandsilence.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/you-told-me-your-name/

    Comment by nic paton | February 14, 2008 | Reply

  3. Nic, your story was great!! You write very lyrically. Made me cry. Thanks!!

    Comment by squarepig | February 22, 2008 | Reply

  4. Dear Squarepig,

    Easter Sunday…mmmm….

    Church, unfortunately, just seemed like a one big, grinding noise today (Jesus? Where?!) so I scoured some blogs, newspapers, magazines and postings when I got home. Somehow this story of yours struck a chord.

    If Jesus were to return today, He would be no more noticed than your man Simon. And if Simon had ever got to speak on the podiums you speak of, he would have been embraced only until the point where (the truth of) his words gave offense, then cast out as an evildoer.

    “Sometime they strew his way, and his sweet praises sing
    Resounding all the day hosannas to their King
    Then “crucify” is all their breath
    And for His death they thirst and cry”

    God Bless
    DJ

    Comment by deusjuvat | March 23, 2008 | Reply

  5. Wow DJ I feel really honoured that my little story resonated for you in a way that was meaningful this Easter. I too have been battling to find Jesus – mainly my own doing. My pastor said recently that it is “exposure” to God that is important. The more exposure time we allow in those little ways – the more opportunity I guess God has to get through in some or other way. Well suffice to say – my exposure time has been pathetic of late! But your comment brings me closer somehow. Thanks

    Comment by squarepig | March 25, 2008 | Reply


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